过渡技巧
Starting college or transferring to a new college is a major event for students and
父母. If 你’ve already had a student attend college 你're probably a pro at this,
but if this is 你r first student that is attending college we have a few tips for
你.
处理分离问题
你的孩子正在长大成人. 虽然你还是父母，你们的关系 随着孩子的变化. 你很难接受学生的成长 独立 and to adjust to 你r child living away or traveling from home. 你的 student may be less willing to discuss the details of their life or may want to spend 更多独处的时间. 这很正常.
Allow 你r student privacy, but make it clear that 你 are available to talk. 当
你r student is ready to talk to 你, be available and listen. 有时他们可能会
只是需要发泄一下. 有时他们可能会有问题需要解决. 你可以帮忙找到
解决方案，但你不必解决问题.
You may have a hard time adjusting to 你r student not being around. 一个学生离开 家是家庭生活中的一件大事. 一些处理“空”的方法 巢综合症是:
- 花时间与家人和朋友在一起
- 在当地大学上一门课
- 志愿者
- 开始一个新的爱好或加入一个俱乐部
- 读那些你列在书单上的书
- begin an exercise routine (make sure 你 consult with 你r doctor first)
应对乡愁
- It is important to clearly convey that 你 are available to 你r student.
- 安排一个固定的谈话时间. 讨论不需要太长. 一个简单的“我” 爱你，想你”也许就足够了. (通过电子邮件或短信登记可能是最简单的方法 干得好!)
- 寄送爱心包裹. Little things like homemade or favorite treats with short notes 意义重大.
当你的学生回家
Set guidelines that respect both 你r student’s 独立 and 你r house rules 当你的学生来访或回家度假时. 可能会出现一些问题 up include: 你的 student expecting the same freedom as they had at school, renegotiating curfews, respecting 你r student’s “space” and privacy, and understanding 你r student’s 独立.
在培养独立性的同时提供支持. 皇冠8868知道当你的学生陷入困境时 你r first instinct may be to jump in and solve the problem but we ask that 你 try 让你的学生先自己解决问题.
上大学前
Here are some skills that will help 你r student make the transition to college.
资金管理
- Be clear about 你r financial limits, including what 你 can and cannot contribute.
- Make sure 你r student knows how to budget money, write a check, pay bills, use an 使用自动取款机，负责任地使用信用卡或借记卡.
- Consider using a debit card so 你r student will not incur high credit card bills.
基本任务
- 洗衣服，打扫卫生，做基本的饭菜
- 阅读街道和地铁地图
时间管理
It is likely that 你r student may work part-time or full-time while attending college. Help them develop a schedule to keep on top of all their coursework. 如果他们挣扎 talk to them about using the resources on campus available to them.